Shakespeare's play "The Winter Tale" is a play about
the destructive powers of jealous emotions. In the play we meet
two royal families whose paths start off linked, but are then
parted by the jealous emotions of one king. It is these jealous
emotions, so aptly demonstrated by the king of Sicilia, that are
the cause of nearly irreparable harm to relationships.
It is the emotion of jealousy that ultimately destroys the
family of King Leontes. Although both he and Polixenes, the King
of Bohemia, grew up as childhood friends, it is clear from the
beginning of the play that Leontes does not value that friendship
in the same way anymore. While he pays lip service to their royal
friendship, it is clear that with each passing hour the kings
jealous emotions are stirring within him. Eventually King Leontes
gives in to his jealousy and thus begins down a path that not
only destroys a lifelong friendship. but cost the king his wife,
child and newborn heir. It is at the moment that the king gives
in to his jealous emotions that he becomes a slave to them. No
longer is the king able to act in a rational and intelligent manner,
but his mad jealousy drives him from royal posterity to raving
lunacy by the end of act two.
In a similar manner, jealousy in relationships today is one
of the key causes of their destruction. When either party in
the relationship does not exhibit a mutual trusts in one another,
the destructive emotion of jealousy can begin to seep in. Once
these jealous feelings enter into the mind, normal, sane, rational,
people can quickly become depraved and indifferent monsters.
Too often it can be seen on the news about so called "crimes
of passion" where the jealous boyfriend kills the girlfriend
or vice versa. Daytime soap operas derive nearly all there suspense
based off couples suspected infidelity and lack of trusts in one
another with obvious results that appeal to their viewers. The
result is that once a person gives in to jealous emotions he becomes
no better than King Leontes.
The emotion of jealousy is a strong, destructive force to a
relationship. It can transform everyday reasonable people into
a dangerous source of jealous rage, with the end result being
the destruction or alienation of loved ones. What is needed most
to confront this problem is pure and simple trust. With mutual
trusts a relationship can grow and mature on a solid and stable
foundation. It is only when we begin to exhibit trusts in our
relationships today can we begin to have a meaningful and true
bond with one another.